My commentary entitled this section "Wedlock or Deadlock?" and then states, "The fact that a man and a woman are both saved is no guarantee that their marriage will succeed. Marriage is something we have to work at; success is not automatic."
The primary message here is "in the same manner as Christ." "Just as Jesus was submissive and obedient to God's will, so a Christian husband and wife should follow His example ... if both partners will imitate Jesus Christ in His submission and obedience and His desire to serve others, then there will be triumph and joy in the home ... In Christ, we see a beautiful blending of strength and tenderness, and that is what it takes ..."
Submission, to the world, sounds like slavery, and the word really sets people off. But for Christians, our example is Christ and we marvel at how He submitted Himself to God's will. My commentary said submission is an obligation, an opportunity, and an ornament for Christian wives. The mirror image of that is discussed next -- consideration. Each partner in a marriage lives in a way that together resembles the image of God. One without the other is incomplete for that image. It's never to be one vs the other, but more like the math formula: 1+1 > 2, because of what God brings to the table in a Christian marriage.
Father, please continue to show me Your will for my life regarding marriage. Help me to only want what You want for me. Bless my married friends and help them to see your will through this.
Your Brother In Christ,
Gary Ford
Gary Ford